Today is my dad's 101st Birthday.
He was the 6th child born to Irish immigrants on Feb 27, 1906, on the southside of Chicago. Delivered at home by a midwife who wrote his name on the birth certificate as Nicholas McGraw. Just think, he might have been called Nick. But instead he was known as Bob McGrath.
Following are a few photos our family has of him before he became "The Dad".
I think the above photo is the only photo we have of our dad with hair! This is the Knights of Columbus Basketball Team. The photo was probably taken around 1926, I'm guessing. I love the names....
at the top: Fitzgerald, McGrath(my dad), Hanley, O'Malley, Lenihan(his cousin)
bottom McCambridge, Coyle, Murphy, and Sweeney (I think a cousin too).
Apparently in the 1930's and 40's heading over to the other side of Lake Michigan to the state of Michigan by ferry or by train was the thing to do (that's where he met my mother). It's where he'd go fishing with the guys.

In the above photo that's my dad with the x above his head.

That's my dad standing in the middle with a drink in his hand.

Here's another photo of my dad with his fishing buddies, and probably many of his cousins too. He's standing in the very center of the photo. I can't get over how much he looks like my brother Robert, or should I say, my brother looks like my dad.

In 1942, my dad was drafted into the U.S. Army during WWII. He was 36 years old, still single and living at home with his parents and brothers, working for the city of Chicago. He'd already lost his hair. Can you imagine being drafted at that age!

He was stationed in California as an M.P. (Military Police). He and my mother corresponded during the 3 years he was away. I sure do wish I could talk to him about where he was and what he did. We have one letter that he wrote to my mother, and these photos. He's the soldier in the middle of the above photo, posture just like both of my brothers.

The back of the above photo says in his handwriting, "Myself and Fort Ord" at least I think that what it says, it's hard to read his handwriting. It also says "California 1943". My dad is on the right.

The back of the above photo says in his handwriting, "The entrance to our barracks".

The back of the above photo says in his handwriting, "Just me Sept 1943 Burbank Cal"
My dad is on the right. I don't have the original so don't know what was written on the back. Cool photo of them marching isn't it?
The back of the above photo is very interesting, in his handwriting it says, " A fellow in our tent took some pictures and they were not any good so he threw them away. I got this one from another lad and it didn't turn out very good either. They said it was the fellow faults (sic) who develope them in Camp San Luis Obispo. I will have some taken here and send them home."
While my dad was stationed in California one of the things the Army had him and the fellows in his unit do was work as "extras" in the war movies that were being produced. The above photo is a movie set! That's my dad in the middle.
Here is another "movie" shot. My dad is the guy in the back looking up.
According to our Family Lore, my mom Rita bought a house with her mother at 7347 South Champlain on her 29th birthday, Dec 9, 1944. The day they moved into the house my dad helped them by getting city trucks. My mom said to my dad that day, "Well, what are we going to do? Get married or not?" My dad had gotten out of the Army in Oct of 1944, and wasn't working yet. When he left the Army he had 6 to $8000 dollars in his pocket. He had blown it all. He mom was very upset with him so when my mom asked him about getting married he started back to work in January and they married on June 2, 1945.
The above photo is my dad and mom, Bob and Rita, December 1944, not too soon after getting engaged. I'll save their wedding photos for a later post.
After WWII was over my dad and his buddies opened a Veteran's Club at 55th & Halsted. During 1948 through 1951 my dad worked as a bartender there on weekends for $50.00. This is how my dad and mom saved money for their first house. My dad and mom are on the far left of the above photo.
The above photo was taken in 1949, probably at Maple Lake where my mom's family had family reunions each summer. My dad always wore a light colored straw hat in the summer, and a darker wool hat in the winter like in the last two photos.